8 Tips for Player Management in Dungeons and Dragons

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separated from his herd because it was all alone. He'd fashioned a spear out of a rock that he'd found in the cave,

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you still haven't made any progress towards the actual trial. Said to himself out loud,

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about the dead all over again. What about your parents of Froze? That voice had come from deeper in the cave. He looked

into the darkness past the flickering light of his meager camp fire. Who goes there? Cried drums began playing, And briefly,

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Welcome back to how to be a better D. M. I'm your host just in Lewis, and I'm here to help you learn how to tell amazing

stories. as U d M sessions of D and D. Sometimes getting a handful of people with different schedules, wants hopes and

interests together To play. a seamless session can seem just about as easy as hurting a bunch of cats. Truly managing

players is one of the hardest parts of being a dungeon master. Luckily, it is a skill that you can master unto That

point. Here are some of my tips on how exactly to manage your players as your dungeon master, Number One is honest communication.

in order to corral three to seven people together to create a shared positive role playing experience. Direct and

honest communication is one hundred percent necessary. You can't hope to be able to manage your players if you can't

pull any single individual aside to talk about the ways the game play can improve. Foster that ability to tell people

about issues to Face. This is one part of this is one part strength of the relationship, one part strength of your

character and one part social acumen. You need to learn how to do it an adroit way. What I find works best is only have

as many people there as need to know what needs to be known.

If you are making an announcement for the whole table, let everyone hear it. But if you are giving correction to a single

player who is constantly distracting the other players at the table, only they need to be present. Number two is routine.

You have to treat your players as if they were children. Children need routine and so do players. naturally. schedules

are always changing, and that's why having your game at the same time every week or on the same day every week helps

a lot. Not everyone can do this. My own group doesn't even do this, So instead we've routinized other things. We always

have it at my house. That lowers the work anyone needs to do to figure out where they are playing When the time comes

to go to D and D. They always know where to go. They also, there are other things that you can routinize like when

we play. I always start off by giving away tokens of advantage. If someone in the group did something cool during

the week that correlates with a D and d skill. This is a home rule rule I made up, but I like doing it because it

also Starts to get us into the mood of playing D and D and basically tells my players were beginning. Number three

is responsiveness. One huge part of managing players is finding players who are responsive. At some point it needs

to be understood that everyone in the group needs to communicate and respond to communications. This rings especially

true for communications about when the game players actually going to happen, if a certain player, if a certain player,

or if a certain player To only respond to the night of the session to say Hey, I can't make it, then something. if

on the night of your game session, a player or to respond and say hey, I can't make it when they hadn't responded any time

before that something needs to change. In those instances, sit down with that player and explain to them that in order to

make the game happen, you need everyone's co operation. We live in a day and age now where communication really doesn't

take that much effort. All it takes is a little response to an A text and you're done. In some cases, the players will

also have to talk with their significant others to make sure there aren't any conflicting plans. That might be where

you can coach the player a little bit more on how to bring up the topic and how to talk with their significant other

To make sure everything is Coach number five. Number four is give players jobs the whole idea behind player management

On the way. The whole idea behind player management is to make it so you and the players are vibing on the same frequency.

It's to reduce distractions that are unwanted, and increase player participation and co operation to do that. giving individual

players duties and responsibilities is a very good way to make sure everyone is invested. You could have one player

be in charge of keeping in tracking initiative during combat. You could give a different player the duty of managing

the battle map during combat, And you could also give one player the duty to write down just the names of all the Npcs

that are mentioned during the session. That way, you never forget whatever job you give any individual player. Make

sure that it is somewhat small and it doesn't detract from that player enjoying the game and having fun giving players

jobs also has the added benefit of making your life as a d. M. easier win. win, Number five is understanding expectations.

Simply put, your players need to understand and be Willing to abide by your rules. You also need to understand and be willing

to abide by their rules. And obviously I use the term rules here a little loosely, but that's essentially what they

are. If you have a player that is uncomfortable

With certain themes or experiences they might find in D and D. Well, you need to be aware of that and also make sure

to help them stay comfortable. Obviously you can push the envelope with simple fears and stuff, but I'm talking about

true discomfort. on the flip side. Your players should be well aware of what they can and can't do. In my book, watching

videos on your phone while we're playing, D n D is a big. no. No. I'm a little bit of a push over though, when it

comes to this type of thing, but it's something I'm actively working on and the problem I see is that half Table

is interested in what I'm saying and the other half of the table wants to see the video. See, I want all my players

to know what I expect and I want to know what they expect of me And this goes for expectations around responsiveness and

communication, as well as no shows and everything else that can come up. Number six is manage them individually. Just

as I am an individual. My players are two. I have a married couple that plays in my group, and I should still treat

each of them as individuals. Honestly, neither of them causes me any trouble, but when it Mes to making sure they get

info about the next session, reaching about reaching out about back stories and and other stuff like that, I should

do it individually, and you know, sometimes we think of managing players as managing a group, but really it's managing

four to seven individuals who all have their own ideas. wants wishes fairs, boredom, et cetera This doesn't mean that

you won't make table wide announcements or have group text message threads, or or things that reach everyone but you

will, and should Manage difficulty. You will and should definitely do those things when it comes to managing difficulties,

though, or making things even better, I find it works best on an individual level. Number seven is firing players.

Sometimes you got to be tough when everything else you've tried has failed. It may be time to quote and quote, Fire, one

of your players. pull them aside one day and ask them if they've been enjoying playing. Look at their demeanor if they

say no, then Simp, Explain that they don't actually have to keep playing if they don't like it, but if they do enjoy

it, make it clear to them that they are making things much more difficult for you as a dungeon master. Explain that

you need them to change their behavior, and if they persist without little change, then pull them aside again and

kindly let them know that they will need to find another gaming table and my experience. After trying everything else,

the player will likely respond and either quit coming on their own or change their behavior. Very very few people Want

to be an annoyance On purpose. Number eight is feedback protocol. In my opinion, one of the most important aspects of

player management is setting up some sort of

System to get feedback whether you go so far as to create a formal survey you hand out after every session, or you just

casually asked your players what they like and didn't like. It doesn't matter. You got to know what makes your players

happy and engaged in the game. If you are having problem players, it might be because they aren't being stimulated enough

by the experience

In this day and age, A d D, and other challenges have become much more prevalent if you can figure out that player

is having a hard time focusing. But player also really loves the mythology of ancient China. Well, it's time to introduce

a few only into the story. Adding more of what your players love is, in my opinion, the best way to make sure that

the players are attentive and co. operative. Now not every table will be filled with players who are completely engaged

and hang on to your every word. In fact, in my experience, the more players that sit at the table, the It is to control

them, and your job as a d. M isn't even to control them. You just need to make sure.

You just need to make sure that everyone at the table has a fun time, and to do that you might employ any of these

methods or others. You can make up yourself. Either way, get your players to buy in and have their attention focused

on you, so they can have fun. Thank you for listening to today show. Send any feed back. You have to how to be a better

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